I think a girl may have put a spell on me. Her and I have been friends for a long time, and once she told me that she loved me. I don't have feelings for her, so we have always just been friends. About a month ago her friend Angie kissed me when we were drinking. The next day Angie told her that we kissed. Then about 2 days later I got really sick. I am still sick, and the Dr's can't figure out what is wrong with me. Also people that I am close to have been getting really sick and/or physically hurt.
I know she is the type of person who would do something like this, as I've seen her treat other friends poorly after the crossed her in the past.
it isn't nessessarily a spell. It would be wise to rule out everything else before coming to her and attacking her. Check if Angie herself has some ill effects. If your girl didn't intentionally sent Angie to test you, chances are she was equally angry with her and cursed her too. Checking if this crazy girl has ill effects could be helpful as well...
If not, come back to the forum and describe us how you feel so that we may think of something to do.
It could be a telepathic attack designed to make you and your loved ones think they are sick, so I want you to get a 2-3 different relatively good psions to scan you for telepathic links. Otherwise I have no idea. Also, try directly asking her if she's involved with magick.
why not just put a binding spell so that if she is usig magick then all you have to do is bind her magick? ive seen a few binding spells around and some arent too hard. so why not give it a try? if it works then youll be cured, if it doesnt then the worst thing is she wont be able to cast magick until you take the spell off
simple as that, thats what i would do personally but ive got enough of an energy sheild up to repel that sort of thing.
People slap jinxes on each other all the time. For real.
Once you step away from Neo-Pagan witchcraft magics, curses are a common phenomenon, unfortunately. They're a part of every indigenous system of magic.
The good news is they're often quite easy to lift, especially if the person who threw on you is a novice or a casual practitioner working within their native folk practices. The most experienced practitioner - the ones who could really kill you dead with the stuff - are the ones who rarely, if ever, use their skills. They're certainly not throwing on a high school student.
This advice is for anyone who beleives they are crossed up:
1) Destroy and throw away anything ever given to you by the suspected person or anything ever touched by them. Make sure the suspected person does not have access to any of your stuff: your home, your personal effects such as used kleenex, drinking straws, hair, fingernail clippings, etc.
2) Do a spiritual cleansing of your home:
http://ldygry.livejournal.com/3360.html
If you are too sick to do so, have your caretaker do it for you or at least have them add kosher salt and/or holy water to a bucket of lemon or pine-scented floorwash and pray while they do so. The 23 Psalm is a good one.
3) Take a series of cleansing baths:
http://ldygry.livejournal.com/tag/spiritual+baths
Bathe three times a week (mon, Wed, Fri) for three weeks with a spiritual cleansing product (Uncrossing, Jinx-Buster, a herb tea made from Hyssop, Purification, etc. I can give you a recipe if you desire).
4) Follow this series of Uncrossig baths with a series of Portection or Blessing baths - three times a week for three weeks.
5) Put up some sort of protection. If this person has constant access to your personal effects, you may wish to treat them regularly as well (bathing, using powders and oils, etc.). Use energetic types of protections: shields, wards, etc., use a protection spell: http://www.luckymojo.com/fierywall.html , and consider an apotropiac charm for protection as well.
the good news is that crossed conditions are usually quite easy to resolve and respond readily to cleansing and protection work. Usually people only throw them once in heat of passion and do not continue with repeated attacks.
Curses manifest themselves in many ways and vary greatly depending on the culture. The main rule of thumb is that curses affect whichever system in your body is the weakest before the attack. You have asthma? Then the curse will affect your breathing. You're clumsy? Then the curse will manifest as an accident. You have high blood pressure? then the curse will affect your heart and circulatory system. This is just one more reason to stay healthy and seek regular medical care.
I always take concerns about curses seriuosly, because, as i said before, there are plenty of nasty people who use this stuff without much thought. The only time the validity of the suspicion put into question is if the "victim" suffers from certain kinds of untreated mental disorders: intrusive thoughts of attack and uncleanliness, obsessions and OCD behavior, paranoia, and the like. If i suspect mental illness is a factor, i will always ask a few tactfully-worded question inquiring into their medical past, whether they're taking (or not taking) any prescribed medication, etc.
If the victim is experiencing health concerns, i will not treat them for cursed conditions or prescribe spiritual work unless they've seen a doctor first. That is a lawsuit waiting to happen and is just common sense.
