on May 06, 2011
I have a friend(yes, really a friend, not me), that's gotten herself into an online relationship that I don't trust. She has a history of falling for the wrong men and then calling me halfway across the country to come bail her out when she finds out that she was wrong.
I want my friend to be happy. I would like to think that I'm wrong and maybe this guy is "perfect" for her (or close). I just don't like the signs. He calls all the time, he doesn't want her to go out with her friends anymore. He lives out of state. They have spoken on the phone everyday but only spent four days of that together. Yet, she's starting to wear an engagement ring.
I don't want to cast a spell to break them up because I don't feel I have the right to do that. She won't listen to me or my concerns as people "in love" rarely do. Tomorrow she will fly out to see him again and I'm frightened for her. Is there a spell that can help a person see sooner, rather than later, if she's compatible with another? If she goes through another failed marriage to another loser I don't think she'll get past it. I'll always be there for her and I won't say "told you so" but the defeat I have to see when I help her move back home is overbearing. I'd rather her see now rather than two or three years from now that this guy isn't right. But if he is, I don't want to interfere. Any suggestions?