Write a simple charm for her to accept the first date. Its best to include her name in it.
Speak it over a red rose. Take one petal off the rose, use preferably a gold marker (but black will do) and draw the rune gebo, and then kenaz to the right of that so that kenaz < is aligned with the angles of and almost inside the X that is gebo. Sharpie makes awesome metallic markers but I've only seen them in office department stores.
Slip the petal in your pocket and give her the rose and ask her on a date. In accepting the rose, she accepts the charm and if you were able to manifest the charm, she'll accept going on a date.
Remember, you can't make any spell work if you can't manipulate and control energy, focus your will, and believe in your goal.
The rest is up to you and fate. Be yourself and what will be, will be! If you are right for each other, it will work out. If it doesn't, accept it and move on. You don't want to force love with one woman who isn't naturally working out, and take the chance of missing your true love that could be right under your nose.