You remember she is a person and would want to give herself to you, rather than you 'getting' her. If the the attraction isn't mutual, drop it and move on.
Just talk, see if there is a spark or click between both of you, if there is, let it unfold naturally, if not, look elsewhere. Once the spark is found one can then think about magic, but it truly shouldn't be necessary so early on. Finding a person whom you can grow to love naturally without relying on magic is much more beneficial to you.