Uh... Little confused by your quandary. You fear you have been cursed or you have fallen for a woman? [Sorry, your flowery language confuses me a bit]
If it's a curse you could do a cleansing of yourself and your home followed by a protection spell. Afterwards just ignore it. If you doubt your cleansing you can let negative energy back in. Also, as Brysing said, curses have power if you believe in them. Personally a curse has a little bite even if you don't believe, but your fear and negative energy feeds it, so it will go away if you ignore it. Without energy magick of any kind doesn't work.
If it's an infatuation with a woman I'm not too sure on the situation so I can't give much advice, but perhaps a honey jar to 'sweeten' her to your affections [but that might go against your morals]
Again, not entirely sure on your problem, but I hope I could of been of some help. Good luck to you.