Hello everyone! I've been researching night and day for honey jar spells and exactly what it is that I need.. I want to get my ex back, he truly does still love me. I have a straw that he used, is that good? And if I put in a picture of him as well? What kind of herbs should I use? And I should use a pink candle correct? I'm do in love with him that I'm positive I can make it work!