Welcome to the site. :)
But I will say, typing formally when posting on a website is a good step. :P
Please do not type in text-speak. It is against the rules. It makes it very hard for those who are not native speakers of English to understand what you're saying.
What do you mean when you ask for someone to help you grow up? Growing up is something that only time and experience will help you do. No one can do it for you.