Re: No one replys
By: Nekoshema / Novice Oct 18, 2012
Post # 4
from the question, i gather he left you for her.
if this is the case, you need to realize that fate might have something different planed for you. while you could cast a spell or two to try and bring him back, not only will his free will fight against it, but you're imposing your will on another. so if he does return, you'll have to ask yourself, did he return because he loves me, or the spell?
that being said, there are plenty of spells you can try. [banishing, love, binding, cures] you need to charge and focus, but if it doesn't work, you need to move on. also, a spell works better if you put forth some effort. if he's still in your life, be nice to him, don't be clingy and obsessive though. if he's not, try to find a way to bump into him or something. but, as i said, if he left you for this other woman, you need to be ready to move on.
It really seems like you are still fairly young and you misunderstand the whole point of life, and you also think wrongly about the term "soul mate" instead of thinking about a good, ordinary and healthy relationship.
I completely agree with the statements above. You are very young, and you will probably have plenty of chances, opportunities and surprises from life or the universe. In your age, love isn't the olny thing you have to think about while you are still full of life and energy.
Love, relationships or mating isn't everything. You haven't experiences enough during your short life so it'd be fair enough to think only about love and disappointment from it.
You are young. Enjoy your youth, experience new things, learn to challenge yourself, and enjoy life. You can do many important and unique things instead of being broken hearted and thinking about your relationship and love mates for the future.
We also repeat this sentence a lot of times and say : "Love and luck will surprise you while you're not even expecting it".
This sentence basically says that love,luck and success will come while we are not literally thinking about it, expecting it, or being worried about it all time. Thus, it will eventually come to you naturally. Just stop worrying about it and being disappointed only because currently love hasn't showed up.
If he left you for someone else, he's not the guy for you. You'll obviously have other opportunities. By patient and do not rush to take crzy actions. You should be responsible for what you do.
Take your time and enjoy from what life has to offer you. The results will be amazing.
If u have time here is the whole story. We have 20 years of a relationship. i know he is my one and only. Based on other relationships. He is the only one I ever loved or made me feel complete. And yes we are still talking. Friends only talking agagn.
I don't know how to cast a spell but would someone please do it for me? If you have time for a little background information I will tell u my problem.
20 years ago I met this man. We started seeing each other and immediately we had a sexual energy out of this world. He had told me upfront he did not want a intense relationship. Only getting together and enjoying each other. I loved being with him so I would come to see him everytime he wanted me to. We would talk on the phone for hr's I would sit and wait for him to call. So I could go see him. This continued for two years. I ended up falling in love with him . It happen pretty fast but I was scared to tell him cause i knew he did not want that kind of relationship. I did not want to scare him off. I enjoyed spending time with him. I was willing to do what ever he wanted. I always thought when he looked at me he loved me but he never once ever let those words come out. One night after we made love i finally got up the nerve to tell him. I whispered it in his ear.But he never said anything back. I took it as he did not love me. So I decided I needed to move on because He was never going to come around. Turns out this year I found out he is deaf in that ear and he never even heard me. WOW ! Anyway. I met someone eles who ask me to Marrie him. I went back to my old lover ( Leroy Bishop) to tell him i was getting married in hopes he would stop me. But he wished me luck. I drove away that day crying but decided our relationship was just to be friends. So i got married, we had a baby and life went on.. I always caller Leroy once a year or so just to see how he was. He got married three times and divorced. Now in the middle of his fourth divorce. When my son was two years old I called and he told me he was sorry he let me get away. that i was the only girl thats always been there. It hurt my heart because I wanted him to love me so bad but he just would not so I moved on and now he wants me back . I did not talk to him much over the years once a year or so, would call to say hi. He would always try to get me to come have sex with him. I would brush off his comments . Two and half years ago my now 13 year old son was diagnosed with cancer. That changed my life. Have been under such a battle. My husband and i stopped talking, and now I am not sure I ever really loved him. only wanted to stop hurting from my true love, my soul mate Leroy. My husband went out of town and worked almost a year and a half and left me to battle our sons fight and home stuff all alone. One night I decided to text Leroy and he says for the first time in 20 years. " FYI I love you " I started bawling. i love him too. and now look at this fix i am in. We started texting. Everything i wanted 20 years ago for him to say he has. He has done everything I ever wanted. We got together 5 or 6 times and made love. So I ended up in a full blown love affair. With who I know is my soul mate. he has begged me to come be with him, but I have explained my son has 9 mo. months of chemo. i cant take him anywhere . He loves his daddy and I cant do anything to stop his healing. So Oct. 2 I get a email saying we should not talk text or get together for a while that he was too stressed. This was so sudden and strange cause he has been at my every call. We talk for hrs. we will do the same things, even cook the same foods for dinner without ever even telling each other. I have been so hurt just not knowing what I did wrong. Then today he finally sent me a email saying he had met someone else. and he did not want to hurt me, he hopes i wont be mad at him. that it just happen. I know without a doubt if i would have been there i am the one for him. and I know he loves me and it would have worked. I know he is lonely. I am two hr's away from him so we rarely see each other. I sent him a message this morning saying I understood he did not want to be allone. We will always be friends. But my heart hurts cause I want him to want me again, to love only me. and for all other women to go away from his life. I know with out one single doulbt I am his soul mate. we are two hearts beating to the same beat. If u have read all this thanks you. I was going to ask him to send me a wine bottle he drinks wine, I was going to make a love bottle but dont know how. Also could someone cast a spell of love on him to bring him back to me and get rid of that other woman??
Nothing bad to her just that she will not be interested in him, or maybe she does not like it rough. He likes it rough. We are freaks. :) anyway. anyone willing to help me :) I want him to only want me for the rest of his life, and willing to wait only for me.
Re: No one replys
By: Nekoshema / Novice Oct 18, 2012
Post # 9
first, sorry to hear about your son. [also, the phrase 'make love' gives me the creeps, don't know why, always has.]
this is going to sound kind of heartless, sorry, i'm just going to be blunt. he's probably stringing you along. you knew him for how many years before you found out he was deaf in one ear? [i think you said 2, but my eyes go wonkie when reading long responses without being broken into paragraphs] i'm not calling him a liar, but the whole thing sounds very suspicious. it seems to me he just wanted sex, since you said you two use to have great sex, and since he was in a dry spell, knowing you had feelings for him, he tried to get back together. i'm glad you chose your son over him, but i'm guessing he'll come back in 9 months saying he loves you and he was a fool to leave you and blah blah blah.
if you're still convinced, and want to cast a spell, you're desire will help you cast, you need to charge with energy and focus. you need to feel energy entering you, then while casting, think of all the good times, all the happy memories, all the reasons why you want him to be with you. this will give power to the spell you cast. personally, i feel it's best to cast yourself.
another point, what is your plan with your life? it's a sad story you told, sounds to me like you just married this guy and had your son because you thought it was right, not because you knew in your heart. that's something i fear and pitty those who get married and have kids just because of some plan or to fill a void. do what you think is best, but i wouldn't throw a marriage away over a guy who is probably just wanting someone to sleep around with. hate to say it, but if he did harbour the same feelings as you, he'd be at your house, he'd still be trying to win you over, not just shrug his shoulders when you say your son is still sick. he's clearly not worth it, you need to take a step back and think things out, take out the emotions, and look at your life.
still, it's your choice, i'm sure you can find plenty of spells on here, though it'll probably end up with you casting a binding spell on the both of you. maybe he does care about you and things work out, if so i'm happy for you, but it's more likely to end in heartbreak.