I knew mine right away...I didn't even have to give it any thought. Maybe you are over thinking it. If someone were to come to you and say "Earth, Wind, Fire, Water, Air?" Without thinking which one would you pick? I knew my answer before the question could even be finished. It should come that quick...I hope this helped.
Blessed Be and good luck :)
Mine was same as Lilly's. When I first heard that your closest to a certain element, I payed no heave. Then I was asked and before I knew it I replied "air." Also, zodiac signs mean nothing, but I think Chinese year of birth helps. Mines rabbit and theyre fast like wind, etc etc
Think of your relationships with each. like im teased and bullied by wind. im terrified and hurt by fire. earth is my friend. water is amazing, comforting, wonderous towards me. its the one youve always wanted to control.
I have always had a thing for birds and the sky. I'm pretty sure that I have two elements, which are air and earth. I have always loved nature and animals, but I also dream about the sky often. Thanks for the help guys!!
then it's probably air/earth, everyone has a minimum of two elements. the first is the one you're born under, each element falls under a zodiac sign [leo=fire virgo=earth] the second is the one you feel drawn to. some people are gifted with elements, my friends an elementaslist and in a matter of hours she's in tune with a new element. meditate, it'll come to you. for each, try meditating near the particular element [fire=candle earth=park water=lake/bowl of water air=outside on a windy day/open window]