HEM is my favorite brand of incense! That and Californian. In HEM I prefer frankincense. It has a masculine but not over powering smell in my opinion. In Californian I really like their white sage. Again not too strong but just enough. Below are Amazon links to both products with great reviews. I have both and would recommend both. You can get like one cone from an actual metaphysics shop or you can get the big box off Amazon. I recommend Amazon in this case because buying in bulk is simply cheaper.
Ps, they are on Prime so free shipping. So worth it! ^^