You have already asked the same question in another thread:
That said, whether or not it is possible, there is little about beginning magic which can be "soon" -- especially something of such a scope.
The posts in the other thread about influencing people is about as close as you can get. But those people still retain their free will, and may still choose not to do as you wish. At the absolute best, you can hope to inspire thoughts or something. Magic uses subtle energy; it does not literally control minds, at least as far as I am aware.
I would personally warn against such unethical actions as well. But it is ultimately your choice. There may be a much better way to accomplish your goals without potentially destroying relationships.
Out of curiosity: Why are you wanting to control someone's mind?