I feel I've spoken to you before but I could be thinking of someone else lol
Anyway, in my opinion love is more where your heart is settled and your mind is enlightened. It is, to me, sincere. Have you tried creating your own spell? Try being creative and write a poem on your desires; there are great numbers of articles on color correspondence, herbs, oils, candles, and symbols you can incorporate into your spell. I don't have a love spell for you so sorry but I'm just trying to give you an idea; also, im not going against you, love spells directed to a specific person or to even attract a type of person can bring you help what you wanted but in the end(sometimes) you realize it's not what you needed. In others words, don't rush yourself, really look into what items or ideas you want to incorporate into your spell, meditate, and enjoy what you're doing. Good luck!