Well, last week I tried texting him and messaging him and he didn't respond.
I started the jar on August 4th; however, I only had the parchment paper with our names and the herbs in the jar. Also, I have his box cutter and one of his ps3 games on my altar close to the candle.
He didn't respond Friday when I texted him last week.
Monday, I added my hair, an envelope he had written my name on from our first breakup, my hair and a pic of me and a pic of him. The candle flame started burning higher.
Just texted him tonight, and he responded but he's still not in the mood to talk at the moment. I'm not sure if that means he isn't ready to talk to me yet, but I figure, if he didn't respond at all last week and now he's replying the jar is in effect. It's slow moving but I guess, this is a step up from where I was. I just can't lose confidence. Keep working the jar. I'm seeing results.