Okay, so to bind an object, simply meditate. Ground yourself, and hold the object in your hands. Visualize your own energies flowing through your finger tips, into the object, and being completely absorbed into it.
Then, visualize the object coming to life with your energy. Becoming full, completely soaked in chi, and glowing becoming alive as itself. If you want to bind it to someone, (eg yourself,) take a small drop of blood and place it on the object, to symbolize that it is a part of you, and is 'alive' because of your chi.
If you want to bind it to an object, when filling it with chi, think strongly and focus on the object you want to bind it to. Visualize the two items blending into one. Watch that one item become alive, filled with energy.
You will need to have both items with you if u intend to bind them to eachother. Hope this helps!