I was hammered with an eternal peace spell which nearly took my life. I have survived it only to ask if I should send this negative energy back at the person or rather should I forgive and clease myself and move on.
honey, you have a lot to live for, be it to help yourself or help others. All magic is ruled by the three fold law, the fact that you know how to curse and are asking whether or not to curse confirms that you are hesitant to do so, when cursing for revenge, remind yourself that whatever you do has repercussions and should be reserved for when you have nothing left to live for. There are so many oppurtunuties; you may have been near dead, but now, you have open doors. Don't curse, foorgive, it is the key to living in serenity and peace.
Actualy not all witches or wiccans beleive in the three fold law and not all redes include it. Also, one cannot kill another with magic. I suggest doing some good cleansing and protecting work and getting back on your feet healthwise, maybe an amulet for extra protection. But you should probably make sure you know your basics a little better. Take some time out for yourself to study while getting well. Do some meditating through AP and find your dieties and consult them on the matter. Re-evaluate your situation. Research binding spells if you truly feel this person needs to be stopped. Practice sheilding.