I did several spells to get this guy to come back to me. However, I haven?t noticed any signs yet and its been 2 weeks. im all restless and nervous and constantly thinking about this guy and he shows no interest other than just talking to me.
got any advice for speedy results? or should i try another spell, one to get him obssessed with me. what are your experiences with these kinds of spells?
Re: did spell backfire?
By: SunshineVal / Novice Dec 12, 2013
Post # 3
I wasn't going to respond to this post but, i just couldn't help myself :).
I'm not a expert on love spells, because i don't happen to believe in trying to manipulate someones free will. But, you mentioned that you've tried "several" spells to get him back. Spells, when done with positive intent and properly will take as much time as they need to take. You mentioned that he's talking to you, that's a positive sign. Try relaxing, meditating and its quite possible that the answer as to what to do next will come to you.
If it were me, i wouldn't try another spell...
Okay, so I don't condone love spells, but I like to answer questions so here is the answer. Spells are going to take as long as they need to work, they will not go *Poof* and work. Some spells take longer then others and some spells require work from your part.
I don't think casting spells upon spells is bright idea, because you could set yourself up for a backfire, but do I know if your spell backfired no, only you will know if your spell backfired. Also I agree with Sunshine, it's a possitive sign he is still talking to you.
There's no way for me to know if your spell backfired without knowing what variation of what spell you did. However, you can not force someone to love you with a spell. Those feelings have to be there already to be enhanced. My questions are these: 1. If he is talking to you and he is aware that you want to be with him again, then what is the urgency of casting a spell to get back together? 2. If you truly love him then why not give him the space he needs? 3. Are you prepared to let go if at some point you realize its not whats best for you?
Re: did spell backfire?
By: thorleifc / Novice Dec 14, 2013
Post # 8
Were you working a honeyjar? That's continual work there, three days a week or so after the first week.
If youre using a lot of different types of work, then yes that can cross you up. Obsessing over love spells can be really negative. That being said, doing work while the moon is waxing in a culmination at the full moon is recommended in some cases...according to some advice ive heard anyway. But that's where the work is planned out that way.
But Its like forgetting about the spell can be the hardest part of the work when it comes to love...I know how that can feel! The heart wants what the heart wants and a lot of times its like...right now! lol
Thanks so much for your advice! I actually am working a honey jar at the moment, so far he?s been talking to me loads and trying to get my attention but hasn?t shown any romantic interest yet, which was the aim of my spell. Im thinking of doing a more powerful spell on the full moon for maximum results. I really want this!