MoonWina13, thanks for insight, hopefully I wont be dealing with any con artist men soon but I?ll atleast be able to spot them out and get away from them if needed.
Barbi, I understand what you mean, and I don?t think you were being a hater at all. You are just trying to help me and I genuinely appreciate all of the wonderful advice that I have gotten from this site so far. I completely agree with you that a spell should not be done when it does not feel like the right time, and that there should be a complete amount of confidence when casting one. I think that once I lose any doubts about myself as a person, and stop having that thought in the back of my mind like certain things I want to achieve are nearly ?impossible? given my history, then I can be more successful with my spells. Maybe I need a time out from spell casting until then and the card could?ve been indicating that for me.