There are always things in life to learn from, and then there are those few things that we should simply learn to forget.
I would recommend learning from this easy mistake, Gracie.(I do not say this to blame you, I say this to make you aware of what is out there, in this world.:))
There are those people who will whish to take advantage of you, and it appears that this is exactly what you have run into.
I hope that through this website you will be able to find your own way (or path) and learn how to cleanse and take care of yourself instead of relying on those who wish to take advantage of you, in the hopes that they will do something for you which you could correct youself. (I would recommend looking through the cleansing spells on this site.)
I wish you the best of luck in your life.
If you need any further help do not hesitate to contact me.