I don't know exactly what situation you are in, but I can tell you about mine and hopefully you can use my experiences to make the right decisions for yourself. Both of these people were friends of the opposite sex that I shared a massive spiritual connection to bringing feelings much, much stronger than just friends.
Person 1: She was dating a good friend of mine. They broke up. We found each other and spent every second of every day together talking and enjoying life. It never became romantic as we felt we couldn't risk destroying what we had. She became lost and confused because she still loved my friend. I was leaving town to go to college and she couldn't handle being alone. When I did leave for college, she felt abandoned and went back to my friend. They are happily married with multiple kids as am I, but we cannot have contact with each other anymore because we feel we are betraying our current spouses because of the overpowering feelings. Her and my friend moved to avoid bumping into each other, not because anyone is upset or angry at anyone, but because we know the potential of getting lost in the spiritual connection and messing up our physical life.
Person 2: I can't explain too much of this one, but it led to both of us dropping out of college and destroying our lives. Neither of us was able to live our physical life because we were so busy living in the spiritual connection we shared. She is now married to the one person in my life that I have never been able to get along with no matter how much we had tried.
What to take from this? Keep yourself grounded here on the physical plane. If whatever is going on in the spiritual plane is going to potentially ruin your physical life, it isn't worth pursuing but is worth the heartache of losing them. My suggestion is to do some tarot readings on yourself and the situation to see of you should pursue whatever path it is you are contemplating. Also, meditate, tarot, however you must do it, find you life path and follow the roads with the different decisions you might make. This way you can choose which life you want to live and can pursue that path. Get help if you need it with the psychic stuff.