New member/need guidance

Hello everyone,
I just joined and while I have Wiccan friends and have some general knowledge of the occult I have never been part of a coven.
I have an Eastern European heritage and intuition which I have been repeatetly told is beyond normal (but what is normal?). It was this intution which guided me to this group.
I hope someone in the group will be able togive me some direction and show me where to start. I am willing to put in 100% effort, as the success of this spell is vital to me.
I am the mother of a daughter now in her mid-twenties. When she was 16 her father, my ex-husband killed himself and to make the tragedy even more horrible his body was not found for several days. I believe that his soul is still not at peace and I did several rituals at his grave site, where he was incinerated, but it didn't seem to work. Since his death my daughter's personality changed completely. From a college student and a good daughter and friend she transformed into a person using drugs, drinking (things she hated in her father). After his death I was diagnosed with cancer but nothing seem to move her and a few years back she moved 3000 away. Had numerous legal and health problems and without questioning I helped her, but the lesson was not learned. She married a few years ago someone she knew for a week. I am not against love at first sight but she is the one supporting them by stripping and it seems to me the places where she "works" are shadier and shadier and dangerous. This is tearing me apart and know in my heart that bad energies are involved in her erratic, self-disructive behavior. My motherly love and intuition tell me her life is at risk and I must do something about it to save my child! Is her father's resstless soul hanging around her? Is his energy and more to it? I searched the site for a spell to remove such energies but I think this is a rather complex issue and I need your help to clarify my own mind and fight energies which I sense are powerful and evil. I hope you could help me save my child. Any suggestions are very much appreciated. Thank you.

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sorry to hear that. first of all, what path are you? are you going to be studying Wicca, or some other form of witchcraft? i could give a more precise direction if i knew. in any case though, meditation should be your very first thing to do. sit and meditate, clear your mind. visualize/feel white light entering your body when you inhale and black light leaving your body when you exhale. feel your whole body glow with pure light, feel it surrounding you and protecting you from negative energy. from there, visualize the white light creating a shield around you [could be a cone, and oval, whatever] protecting you from negative energy. throughout the day, think about it, try to visualize it protecting you.

once you get use to meditating, chakra work should be next. balancing the chakras will help your natural flow of energy in your body, and you'll feel better in the long run.

in regards of your husbands spirit, could try a few things, speaking to it [no ouija boards though] to see if there's something he needs before crossing over. if he's just hanging around out of spite, banish him, cleanse your whole house and put a protective barrier around the place to keep him and other negative forces out. you should also wear a protective charm, and hand one in your home for good measure.

for you daughter, this is trickier. as i said, i don't know what path you are, but you should speak with her, and ask if she wants any magical help from you, failing to do so and casting anyway would go against her free will and some people see that as a negative spell, even if you have good intentions. i'm not too sure how strong your relationship is, but try an intervention, cast a honey jar spell to try and soften her up to the idea though. i understand she's your daughter, and i doubt many parents would be happy with those decisions, but some people become strippers because they like the job. don't get upset with me, it's true, some people do. so try to speak with her, and her husband if possible, about her drug use, and try to convince her to seek help. you need to know which battles to fight. drugs [depending on what drugs you mean] can be deadly, and they have terrible health problems. being a stripper can be dangerous, but it carries less of a risk than the drugs, so try to get her to give that up. telling her to changer her whole life would be a bad idea, she's an adult, and you might loose touch with her forever.

if you feel a spell is necessary, a protection spell to keep her safe from your ex's spirit, and other negative energy might do the trick. good luck to you on your path, if i were you though i'd focus on myself, learning more than 'the basics' and protecting my home before branching out. blessed be.