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Free tormented heart
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Hello, I am really new to spells but have always been interested but asked others to help me. I now wouuld like to help myself and find out more about casting spells for my own healthier well being. I am happy to do candle magic but nothing else. I am in a really emotionally difficult and draining situation. I am in love with a man who in the past has loved and lived with me but because he is so damaged/possibly still in love with his ex wife/perhaps just using me....he cannot and will not commit to me in any sense. He has booked our wedding (23rd Feb) bought very expensive engagement ring now said he feels he could never marry again. He has also stopped making plans with me, talks to me in a very disrespectful way and is very emotionally cruel. He then tells me if I dont stand by him I surely dont love him. I do sincerely love this man but I need to find the strength to pull away and stop the cruelty I am suffering on a daily basis with him. Its much too complicated for me to divulge here and I dont want an agony aunt, I am just looking for a spell that can free me from the mental torture I feel. He wont even see me but forbids me to find my own hobbies or mix with friends....this also shows I dont love him? I need a spell to free me from the web I feel I am in, and although I sincerely wish to wait for him and hope he one day will feel strong enough to move on and love again (hopefully me, but if not, please dont let me hurt too much)I just would like a spell, I can cast for myself to ease the misery I feel from day to day of being shouted at, put down and hurt by a man i do love but hurts to be in love with
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Re: Free tormented heart
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This is a very difficult situation. I don't think just one spell is going to help. I would recommend seeking counseling, but in the mean time I would recommend performing the LBRP: The Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram daily. Here is a link to a good description... http://www.wicca-spirituality.com/lbrp.html

Good luck, and Blessed Be!
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Re: Free tormented heart
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counseling will help you out alot and will get you back on track.

~Rain~

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Re: Free tormented heart
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thank you, someone else has replied with same advice. I dont think I need counselling, its just a difficult situation that I feel i need to address myself. Being pulled emotionally is I accept a vulnerable and possibly negative state to find oneself in, and I respect your advice. However in the first instance I would like to try to heal myself. Many thanks for your reply and your advice
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Re: Free tormented heart
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Post # 5

Try meditation or yoga its really makes you feel better day after day.

~Rain~

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Re: Free tormented heart
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I do and I will continue to do so. Its just a really testing time and I just want a little extra help through this time. I will continue to burn my candles and focus on the positive. I posted my question in the hope there was something that i could do to strengthen my spirit. Many thanks again for replying
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Re: Free tormented heart
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Im sorry to say this, but you are with an emotionally abusive man. Ive been with one for 3 years and he has the same characteristics you are describing here, in fact , his behaviour is exactly as you describe: one day he?s be loving, caring and ready to commit, then one small mistake from my part would set him off and he?s act like he hates me. He?d put me down all the time and I had no self confidence to meet new people or make friends. Thank goodness he dumped me last week. Does any woman deserve that kind of guy when there are so many faithful, caring and loving guys out there? No.Believe me its hard to get out of that kind of relationship, but the sooner you break all contact with him and meet new people, the sooner you will feel so much better.
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Re: Free tormented heart
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I do see that, but its very difficult because he fluctuates between loving and nonchalant. i feel very vulnerable and see this as a flaw in my character which is why I was looking for a spell some reinforcement something to focus on and believe in to give me inner strength. I do believe like you I am in an emotionally abusive relationship and thats another topic, but I just want to find peace and harmony in my own life and the strength to pull away from something that is very damaging to my mental well being. I wish you well and the hope you also find the strength to eject yourself from something so damaging
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Re: Free tormented heart
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But you can?t find peace and harmony if you still are with him. There are some ?getting over a love?spells on this site that you could try but first try cutting all contact with him for a while. Its only been a week since my ex dumped me and allready I feel better by just not having to listen to his crap all the time. He has an emotional problem that makes him act the way he does and its nothing to do with either you, or me (the people hes going out with). A banishing ritual or a cleansing using bath salts and a white candle to wash away the hurt he?s allready done is a good idea. Ill let you know if I find anything else
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Re: Free tormented heart
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Thank you. I have some epsom salts and white candle and will do that tomorrow. I know in my heart this is what i need to do, i need to pull away, i dont need extra help with counselling, im very emotionnally hurt and very confused and even though i find it hard to pull away from him because he keeps throwing things back at me that its all my fault, i know im not to blame. it may seem rather cowardly of me to not face this head on, and ask for a spell to ease my hurt, but maybe this is my way of daaling with it. I really appreciate talking with someone who knows exactly what i mean and where i am coming from and i appreciate your time in replying to me, you sound strong but a week in is a week in and you can only get stronger i admire you. i will look at the site you recommend and thank you kindly for that. kindest regards x
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