Hey there, as you may have guessed I'm rather new to this site. I am here to learn as much as i can about Wicca, i am just starting out into Wicca and my current goal is to cast love spells in order to ensure that the love of my life stays around and in my arms. I would be eternally grateful to anyone who helps me to obtain this goal.
@ Rainbow i think it depends on the spell actually. if you cast a spell to make (person) fall in love with you, then yes. if you cast a spell to bring love into your life, no. this spell, you're asking the universe to bring someone new into your life, not a certain person. so you're not casting over them, you're asking for something. but if someone doesn't feel right casting love spells, whatever, their choice. i do agree though, casting over another to make them love you is pointless.
try something small like a candle spell or a honey jar spell. they will both attract love to you without casting on one person. to keep the person, i'd suggest talking with them about it, but a binding would work. maybe look into a handfasting ceremony though. it's a commitment ceremony much like a wedding, so i wouldn't advise rushing into it. you bind your and your love together. this won't ensure you'll stay in love though, it will just keep you together. like marriage it can be undone.
Honestly, I believe Magick should be the last resort. In love I do not agree of the usage of spells. I believe the two should work on it by themselves.
However time for me to play the devil's advocate on myself.
Love spells can indeed help improve a relationship, if and only if the couple are going to work at it together. A spell must be met half way or it will fail.
If you want it, you should take steps to get it. Magick might help you strengthen your relationship, but in order for it to work you must help the spell yourself. It will not work if you put no effort into it.