Thanks to those who sent me positive energy for my Friend of the Court meeting.
Here is what happened:
My ex did not show, which I knew she would not. I was given a new appointment time to get more substantial evidence that my son does not live with his mother. In the mean time, I will still have money extorted from me.
Now, I have a question, would it not be fraud if the mother is receiving money for a child she does not have custody of? I believe it constitutes as fraud. I mean, check this out, my 17 year old daughter used to be on this case as well, until she got married. Guess who had to travel 50 miles to get her marriage certificate and then drive another 120 to drop it off to Friend of the Court? Not the mother, not the one who was suppose to report this change in custody, but yours truly. I asked the referee if this constituted fraud. He told me it did. Is FOC going to do something about her using them to extort money from me for seven months? Nope, not a damn thing. They just took monies received from time she was married to the time they received the marriage certificate and put it towards arrears. Wow! What if I did not have arrears? Would they have gone after her for fraud? Probably not. Oh, and if they did? Well, good luck finding her because CPS can't even do that!
Sorry for venting, I just wanted to give those who blessed me an update. I appreciate it and I believe those blessing stopped me from saying something really bad in court and helped keep my head level instead of going to jail for my loose tongue. I saved that for my little walk out in the woods when I got home. I am sorry to the tree who met my fist, repeatedly...
Have a good night friends.