i love a girl named as aishwarya lad she is a scorpio and her date of birth is 13/11/1993.i love her very much from bottom of my heart but she hates me now she doesnt have any feelings for me i think before she had some feelings but due to my over possessiveness and anger and insecurity she hates me nw we dont even talk to each other.i never raised hand on her but i used to shout at her i know i did mistake but now i regret it very much im scared that she will fall in love with someone else and i dont know how i will live i love her very much my past behaviour was bcoz i was insecure dat i might loose her i promise i will never hurt her again please help me please i beg u i dont want to loose her please help me i live in india i cant pay any fees bcoz i and my family doesnt have credit card.i want her true love i dont want her heart to be forced i want her to realise how much i love her and i want to become attractive so dat she will become attracted to me please i want to live with her for eternal please help me please may god and goddess bless u please help me
Re: serious love problem
By: Alvastar Jan 02, 2013
Post # 2
Just so I have this clear:
You love a girl.
She left because you took your anger out on her, were insecure, and treated her like a posession.
You want her true love , want her to truly love you , and want said love to not be forced .
Perhaps the issue is in translating this all to English, but I'm not seeing a way for you to make someone love you without it being forced . In which case, did they truly ever love you? Perhaps, but perhaps you'll always be questioning it, especially since you admitted to being insecure. It's bound to pop up into your mind, and then this whole cycle will repeat itself.
So here's my advice, which you won't take because you're only seeing what you want to see:
For the next month: Don't go out of your way to approach, call, talk, look, etc. any aspect of her or her life. This is so that she will see that you're respecting her wishes. During this time, work on you . Fix yourself up emotionally, mentally, etc. Meditate for 15 minutes twice a day (before and after bed) to clear all your stray thoughts out of your head.
If you've done this right, you should have stopped being obsessed with having her , and see that you really are objectifying her. Noone really wants that, even if a woman says she wants to be the center of someone's world. People need to breathe.
Once she sees that, she'll more than likely come to you and talk. If she doesn't, then just walk over to her one day when she's eating lunch and ask if she has a few minutes to talk. If she doesn't, don't make a big deal out of it. Accept her response and walk away without looking like she slapped you.
You need to understand, the more you hold onto something, the more you end up squeezing the life out of it. There's a saying, " If you love something, set it free. If it doesn't come back, it wasn't yours to begin with. "
Re: serious love problem
By: Nekoshema / Novice Jan 02, 2013
Post # 3
wonderfully put Alvastar, i completely agree.
sorry to say this DARKLORD [hee, yelled that in my head] but you need to work on yourself before seeking out your 'true love'. you can cast a spell to make this person love you, but it won't last, since you'll be countering their own free will, they will fight back against the spell, so you'll need to constantly recast, and i don't think that's what you want.
like Alvastar said, focus on yourself. meditate, balance your chakra's, dive into the reason why you treat your 'true love' this way. you might not want to face the reason, but it needs to be dealt with if you want a happy future with this woman.
if i was to suggest any spells to cast, i'd suggest spells to help you with improvements, like a spell to help cool your temper. [it won't take it away, it'll help] after you've worked on yourself, try to speak with her. don't cast over her, it'll end badly.
^I agree with them. We all make mistakes, it's part of life. And forcing someone to love you would not be true love, it would barely be real love at all. First, you need to focus on why you think she hates you, and change your ways. But never change who you really are, or anything good about yourself. I'm sure she doesn't hate you though. If you think she'll only take you back depending on what you look like, then it's also not true love. Love doesn't care about a person's appearance. I wish you luck and eternal happiness. Take care!