15 years ago, a young novice woman cast a spell of her own making on her boyfriend, whom she was exclusive with and whom she believed loved her, to choose her to marry. I can't say that it was the spell that kept them together or if fate would have kept them together. But they have been married for the last 13 years and have 2 kids. Now her husband who professes his love for her wants her to reverse the spell to prove that their love is not made from black magic. She knows that the spell was unethical and this is the only spell she has ever cast. She is regretful and very sorry for the original misdeed. Should she cast an undoing of the love spell? If so, how should she go about it?
People gave you a good way to simply take away the energy built up and directed upon the desire while it isn't exactly a full cancelation of the spell itself since the spell has consequences and affects which are already done. Meaning that it isn't that easy to destroy and take away what you've already caused by casting the spell.
You can easily get the conclusion from what I've said above that reversing the effects of a spell that is done successfully is quite impossible. Spells typically work with natural order and if have been done successfully they have an eternal marker on what they affect.
reprieving, ceasing, dissolving, neutralizing, or countering your spell is basically what you're looking for. Even though energy can be banished and won't stay around forever, there are still resulting outcomes.
As Murfie said, it's important to get rid of the energy you directed upon the intent specifically. What you also need to do is not to target the spell, but to target the resulting outcomes.
You may cast a spell for piece and for a better result for ever individual outcome or all of them put together. It's your choice. Praying for forgiveness and for better ending is always helpful to your emotions and the affect that may come by... Remember that the energy will not be around forever and it won't always play a big role in your life. Energy comes, and goes.
As long as you try to fix what you've done by working for it personally by your own way and keep being positive, it should be fine.
However please bare in mind that it's not too easy to fix something which typically goes with nature and has been already done. You need to work for that, and slowly take steps to make the situation better.
Thank you for your reply. You have given me much food for thought. I so want to please my husband and grant him his request. But I realize that it is so much more complicated than that, even before I wrote my post.
History cannot be undone. However the intent or energy to control him can be released. I can pray for forgiveness and hope for the best. I hope I am understanding your reply to me.
I am feeling as though the original spell was less of a love spell and more of a binding spell, to keep him close to me, to never lose him.
Part of me just wants to do nothing. At this point in my life, I do not believe that I should be summoning energy to control others.
But would it be wrong to unbind him from the original intent? Would that summon a dark force? It scares me to disturb the natural balance and order of the universe as I may have once done. The responsibility feels immense. I want to do the right thing. I want to take my time to figure this out without impulse and using forthought.