Stop for a moment and just think, "Is this really what I want to do? Will hurting someone really solve the pain that is already going on? how does this help me, or anyone?"
These are serious questions that need to be considered. As I myself have witnessed, and been in extremely unhealthy relationships like what you have with this woman, i understand yourdesire to just make it stop. My suggestion is to pursue spells that will help improve your relationship with this woman, instead of trying to hurt her. Prayer, and guidence (even from an attorney if it gets to that point) are perfect things to seek out and do.This is a very harsh situation. I am sorry this is happening to you.