okay so my ex was basically my best friend until I got a new man. But here's the problem. I'm in love with my ex and I can't tell if he's still in love with me or if it all was just a joke. He was in my dreams before we met/came into contact and I don't dream like at all unless it has to do with me or someone close to me but he wasn't close to me at that time. Ten days after my birthday we met and became best friends. Started dating months afterwards. Since we broke up (this was done on an agreement), neither one of us is happy and he's fallen into smoking and drinking. I want to help him and help myself but I wanna see him happy before I make myself happy.
Can someone please please give me some advice. I guess I should add that I'm clairvoyant so you kind of understand that what I've just told you is actually real.