I agree with MagicMoon. This thread is a bit ridiculous, or at least a bit role-playingish. "ok so i have wings (i know alot of people may say that but im not joking)". Physical wings are impossible to have. Why is this? I would look into the other forum discussing why it isn't possible, as I think AwakeTooLong summed it up pretty well: (You might have to remove spaces in the link)
As you'll notice in that post, there are several flaws with a human having physical wings.No spell you do or have done will change your body in that manner. There are physical constraints on the human body and a spell will not simply break those physical barriers and laws to transform your shape, or whatever it is the spell said it was trying to achieve.
To approach this from another angle, as has been questioned above this comment, if you really *did* have these wings (as you claim) you can bet that they would have been noticed. And I can bet that you would not be on here, typing this as you did. What would be the point of asking people who do not have wings how to use your wings, if you had them? It wouldn't make any sense in that context.