Discovering mine was an unusual experience. I had several dreams about ravens, as well as the bizarre experience of a strangely persistant raven following me around at the Grand Canyon. Knowing nothing about norse myths, I wrote a fictional story about ravens, it paralleled a norse myth, as I later discovered.
Since then, the norse pantheon has always had special.significance to me, especially Odin. My advice is to trust your instinct and explore your world; you will.know when you have found your deity.