hi i'm very new to the pagan way of life, but it has been something that has interested me all my life. I have always lived my life very much in the live and let live way, each being their own. I have always been interested in healing, and always put others before myself, hence i feel lately i have become a bit of a doormat. I found out recently my hubby has had an affair, but he says he wants to stay with me. She seems to have got away with it, and this angers me. I have no real wish to hurt her, but want her to stay away from my husband and family, does any one have any ideas?