If magick and sensing the spiritual was only learned, how would it have begun? If it were only learned why is it that it can be found all over the world in even the most isolated indigenous tribes? The answer is, there are many people who are born with the ability and it is innate to them. But this doesn't mean they shouldn't discover how to control it and make it better. So be thankful that you were born with a gift, and work now to learn how to use it wisely.
And as for the wind, it could be just the way you perceive the wind at those times. They don't say the wind speaks to us for nothing. It seems to me that air is an element you relate to well, since you are obviously very aware of it and its messages. Not everyone is aware of their own emotions, much less the wind in comparison to their emotions.