It's been a rather tough time for my family, one of my cousins has died. I want to do a blessing for them, as the funeral is tomorrow. Typically most of my spells I like to use a wash of water and different herbs in say like...a picture of the person, and burn it.
Are there in quite common household herbs and spices I could use for a blessing? I typically don't ask but I want to make sure this is perfect.