That might be the element you are drawn too but may not be your natural element. Your natural element is usually determined(at least in my experience) by your zodiac sign.
Now, getting in tune with your energy is done through meditation. Find a comfortable position and relax. I know most people say to clear your mind but that is more difficult than we like to admit so for now just focus on something calm that sooths you.
When you have done this and reach a state of of true relaxation you can move on to focusing your energy. If you have any questions dont hesitate to personal message me.