There is no destiny! What,my destiny is to live 100 years,but,I can kill myself now (I WONT.) and,no destiny :P
It doesn't work that way. So,somebody tells you,your destiny is to die tomorrow,getting hit by a car,and you will just go stand in front of a car,because it's destiny? NO. Destiny is the result of your acts and choices you made through life. The problem is,do you want your husband to HAVE to love you? It's chaning his mind by magic,it's not true love,and do you want someone that doesn't even love you,by your side every day? It's black magic,and it's not a good thing to do! Just don't go to all of those fortune tellers and stuff about the custody,because anything that they tell you,can be changed...And rather,if you still want to do any kind of spell,let a trusted person do it,not every spell caster you find on the road,who knows what will they do,or even better cast them yourself. But stay strong,and rather just fight fairly for the custody,and divorce if it's needed so you're all free and happy,instead of binding someone to you against their free will,and listening will you or will you not get the custody...Good luck!