I wish that stereotypes did not exist, however people also live up to them quite often.
I would stop lighting candles for your friend and trying to contact him. I think you need to let this run it's course. Sometimes the best lesson in magic is to remove magic from the situation. Your friend if he is a true friend will come back to you. If you are his friend you will let him feel free to decide this for himself. :)
Actually it is ;) However you seem to not be familiar with the rules of our site. The are to be no personal attacks in the forums or chat. If you had said your sarcastic statement to another member I would have removed the post and given you a warning through the mail system. Instead I tried politely to defuse your aggressive tone. Since you do not wish to take the hint consider this your warning. :)
Let him go and move on, make new friends. I don't understand why
people waste their precious time trying to fix "broke" people who
do not want, accept or appreciate their help.
Thank you one and all for taking the time to reply to me. I've decided to stop praying and lighting candles for him and move on. Even if he did come back I do not believe I could forgive him and our friendship could never be the same. I tried my best to be a good friend and I never did anything to hurt him and if he misconstrues something I did as hurtful than its his loss and not mine. Its really a case of with friends like that who needs enemies, so to quote a song "stop crying your heart out!" Ive shed tears over this and being hated, but only time can heal this hurt in me and I know I dont deserve to be hated.
Your welcome glitterybabe. It seems you have taken everyone's thoughts and came to a conclusion of your own. :) I hope you have a easy time dealing with the emotions that a situation like this can bring. Many Blessing :)