My wife died recently, and I'm at a point where i will do anything ANYTHING at all to contact her. I've studied the occult but I have only practiced spells a handfull of times. My wife was very gifted in this aspect. She could contact spirits very well. With her I experianced things I had never before thought possible. She also remembered details of her past life as Erzsebet Bathory.She had dreams from a very young age. I'm a skeptic but I knew she was telling the truth. I feel her all the time but i can't grasp what she wants. sometimes I think I should joun her but I just need to hear from her somehow. Can anybody help me? Please
Re: I need some help
By: DarkestLight Jun 08, 2009
Post # 2
I dont think you should join her just yet.. Live your life... I would suggest lighting a purple candle for her infront of her picture at night before you go to bed and ask her to enter your dreams and communicate with you its a simple spell rather than a more complicated ritual.. And make sure to call out her name several times until you feel her presence...
Pheonix, if you can sense energy then drop me a pm and i will see what i can do to help out, understand unless you can sense and read energy well you may be dissapointed because her soul is on a subtler level of reality than yours, thus it takes work to see beyond that veil. My sympathies to you friend.
If you love her.. come to the dark side.. we have cookies..
Nah, in all seriousness though, contact Warriorxxx to get you started, I can only help you with the basics.
I'm warning you though, it'll take some hard work to contact her, but in the name of love, I wish you the very best, I'm sorry for your loss dude.
If you want, I can get you immediately started with the basics, and after that, Warriorxxx is the one to help you, or you could just drop warriorxxx a pm and get him to teach you all the way through =]
Re: I need some help
By: kts Moderator / Adept Jun 10, 2009
Post # 6
I suggest meditating to open your third eye. This will allow you to "hear" your wife yourself. This skill will take time to achieve but right now would be a good time to start practicing. As we move through the wheel of the year the veil between the worlds will thin. It will be at it's thinnest on Samhain. If you take time everyday to meditate and connect with the energies around you while also opening your third eye by October you should be able to understand the messages your wife is trying to tell you.
I can give you one message from her for you. "Learn to communicate with me on your own" :)
I think since your wife was seemingly gifted in spirituality, if she wants to reach you she will. I think that trying to contact her now though will prevent you from moving on emotionally and accepting the fact that she is dead, and can't be with you at this point. Perhaps though if you did a ceremony to move on involving her spirit it would help you. Death is always tough, but we have to get over it eventually.