My marriage wasn't based on love at first sight. He wedded me because he wanted sole custody of the kids but I want it now to be based on love. He doesn't love me. I don't love him either. What simple but very effective marriage spells and rituals should I do to base our marriage on genuine love from him. It's going sour more n more and I can't take it anymore.
If the relationship is going downhill but you want to make it work, I'd talk to him first about what you want, and try to set goals or things to work on for each other. If that doesn't work, you can try couples counseling.
You could potentially do a sweetening jar with sugar or honey to make the relationship sweeter, but as for full-on love...I personally don't think that can be brought about with magic if the two people just aren't compatible.
Going more and more sour is what happens when people wed for superficial reasons. While, yes, there are marriages which do succeed with such arrangements, it's because both parties are on the same page about it. Two adults see themselves as mutually beneficial and agree that combining their lives is the best option. It's purely business.
I completely agree with Nekoshema: Love cannot be created where at least the potential does not first exist. A sweetening jar might help ease tensions, but it will not create what is not there to begin with. That is the risk of agreeing to enter such an emotionally asymmetrical relationship.
if you want to try the honey jar spell it is very simple
you'll just need a jar honey and you can add items that represent your husband or your marriage and other items that could help sweeten up your marriage such as vanilla abstract, sugar etc
you always want to make sure you bless the jar before doing the spell so that it stays true to your intentions.
"He does not love me, and I don't love him either."
You'd like this relationship to be based on love now, but say you don't love him.
I have always been under the belief that love can not be forced.
I would consider accepting this relationship for what it is, rather than attempt to forcefully change it.
Question to consider, is this relationship in any way mutually beneficial? Are the kids happy? Are you happy? Is your partner happy?
Forcing another to love you, yet alone for you to love someone just doesn't seem the solution here to me. This is as always only my thought on the matter.
If you really want to pursue a working regarding this trying a honey spell is not exactly a bad idea.
However, I'd consider an acceptance working. To help accept things as they are.
