Blessed be everyone I have been casting spells to bring my soulmate back to me and get him away from his current partner lately things have been happening around me like things falling in the middle of the night or while i'm sitting talking to my mam ( a fellow witch) I always ask the gods and goddesses of love to help me and always thank them afterwards my left ear constantly burns which i've been told is left for love right for spite today i was talking to my mam about my soulmate and how much i love him and want to get him back when suddenly the light bulb came out and smashed on the floor is that a sign that my soulmate is coming back to me? Do i stay positive or should i be worried? Because i really don't want to lose my soulmate i've cast a spell to see my past lives and in all of them he was my husband i don't want to lose him in this life so i need to know if I'm in for romance and a life of happiness or am i in for heart break and misery until my next life
Re: TO GET MY SOUL MATE BACK By: Nekoshema / Novice
Post # 2 Aug 14, 2019
Before I begin, I should inform you I personally believe we have more than one "soul mate" in our lifetime, and not all of them are your "true love" it is a person who gets you on a deep spiritual level [some argue twin flame, but that's different] also when it comes to signs from the divine its really best if you reflect on them yourself since certain signs could mean different things to you [snakes are typically seen as negative, but you might work with a deity represented by a snake and therefore it would be a positive sign]
That said, I feel the signs are saying stop [a light "went out" as you were trying to get your "soul mate" back. It seems really obvious, but in other words "their flame for you has gone out"] if you continue to obsess over this person I don't know what would happen. You might be able to overpower their free will and they would return, but it wouldn't be their free will, but you forsing them to be with you. Ask yourself if you would really be happy with that? Is that really love if you have to be the pupetmaster of the relationship? [It hurts, but sometimes you need to let people go because you love them] I feel you're too focused on this person you are missing other options, other life choices, perhaps even another love [maybe you will one day return to your "soul mate" after the two of you have grown and learned, maybe not. This should be a lesson to you, not a loss]
Total agreeance with Neko. How is it love if it's one sided?
I was in a relationship with a girl and she seemed to be "the one" it felt perfect and awesome. I was 100% confident in it. However that all crashed after she did a personal thing that shattered it. Doomed me for a long time.
But you gotta move on. Think about how old you are, if you're young which I'm assuming then there'll be plenty of other opportunities.