I performed a reading on what a good friend of mine thinks of me. Right now we have been separated for a while with no way to contact each other for now, and it has had me worried. The spread I have used is in this Aeclectic Tarot thread: http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=219063
The cards I have drawn for each position are below:
2: Knight of Wands Reversed
3: Ace of Wands
4: 10 of Swords Reversed
6: Knight of Pentacles Reversed
7 (A bonus card depicting how his thoughts of me manifests in his deeds): The Magician
I was a bit distracted with some flashes of negative thoughts of other matters as I tried to shuffle my deck for this spread, but I decided to continue with the shuffling and deal the cards, taking note of them. With the results of the spread, I am worried about the future of our friendship. Could someone give me their interpretation of the reading? Furthermore, do you suggest I try to redo the reading when I will be more focused?
Re: I want a 2nd opinion
By: Eirdottir / Beginner Aug 15, 2017
Post # 2
At first glance, this card does seem frightening and scary. However, it can actually be one of the most positive cards in the deck despite it's name. Death symbolizes that you will close the door and open up another one leading to new begginings, and better opporitunities and possibilities. It also encourages you to let go of the past and let go of unhealthy attachments. This card may be pointing you to the relationship of you and your friend.
The Kight of Wands reversed indicates delay and frustrations. Be very careful of your steps and do not rush into things. Being restless and impaitent will only cause more trouble and chaos. This card also represents a loss of personal power and gives you the feeling that you are no longer in control. In times of frustrastion, please be paitent, or you may act irrationally and cause more destruction.
This card indicates to strike the hammer while the steel is still hot. However, do not forget the warning of the Knight of Wands. Do not act irrationally and without thought. Instead, think before you act. Then once you know what you want, act quickly.
The Ace of Wands also indicates inspiration and motivation. It tells of a restless energy just waiting to get it's task done or completed. So, what this card is telling me that you are very nervous and very restless about your friend. But be paitent.
The Ten of Swords points to a painful ending. However, this pain will sow the seeds of growth and regeneration to move forward. Rather dwell on the pain, the anxiety, the negativity, it is more effiecient and much more worthwhile to look towards the horizon.
Temperance indicates balance, meditation, and peace. Temperance asks for your paitience so you can deal with the situation in a timely manner. Let the situation form at its own pace and let the coins fall where they will.
The Knight of Pentacles tells that you are feeling stuck in a rut and you crave some sort of ambitious, fruitful change. Make sure you aren't ignoring any factors in your life such as home upkeep, money, work, or any other situation that requires responsibility. While your hard work is appreciated, do not lose support of others on the way and be more flexible in your approach.
This card is about manifesting your goals. You can benefit from your creative forces as long as you're aware of your surroundings and you are concentrating. Allthough you are very worried on the inside, on the outside you are very confident and seem to know what you are doing.
I hope this interpritation gave you a clearer eye on the situation at hand. I would like feedback and if you have any questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them.
1- your friend has changed she has gone through a hurdle in her life and has left it behind. she is no longer afraid. Shes a new person of her own being. What she wills will come.
2- she hasnt had a lot of stability in her life. she had to stand on her own two feet and face the odds herself. She has a troubled past. one she had to let go. She can not turst easily. shes been hurt before. i hear this word ,"run."
3- Shes a wise one. All of the things she had to learn, she learned the hard way. There wasnt a time she could remember relying on an adult. She did things her own way. Defiance. I see adults don't think of her well.
4- there are battles going on inside her. she has a very dark place she tends to go to in her mind . some times, it doesn't stop. i can hear her tormenting herself about so many things. faults, pain, guilt. It's not a very nice place. She feels troubled about what's going on in her life. She also doesn't think of herself wel. She's lost in thought.
5- this is a need for her. She needs balance. she can't do everything herself. it's taking a toll on her emotionally, and mentally. this card tells me it's hard for her to hear that she has people around that are willing to help her. She won't look weak. ever to them.
6- her family ties are unwinding. i see grief in this. anger. frustration. in this her family life should be happy. it looks happy, but she knows something. Its eating at her. this is one battle she's won and lost many times. she is very head strong.
7- i see many patterns. the same ones that occur over and over. the same result. She knows what will happen next. In this card i see this change in her heart. She wants to do better in life than the cards she was dealt She wants happiness. She wants to go find it In this i see power of will. power of being.
Sorry, i dont know if this friend of yours is male or female. From what i was looking into i saw female. It could mean this person is in touch with their feminane side or they are female. hoped this helped you.