Yes you are so right I'm being to vague.I'm concerned about putting out negative engergy.
I do need to get this out though or I will never find the help I need. I have lived with evil for many years now I am away from it but it has followed me. I need to banish it it. I'm striving for the peaceful spiritual being I feel inside me and the strong desire to help others find there true self. I'm a born Empath it hurts me to think that my feelings are going to in some way take strenght from another Empath. Thank you
as an empath you should probably do daily shieldings and cleansings so you don't get too bogged down with others energy [a simple cleansing is to visualize negative energy being washed away in the shower. you could say the chant 'stress and strain go down the drain' while doing this] regular cleansing and protection of your home can also keep the energy on the positive side [you should also wear a protection charm if possible for a little extra something]
also, while a positive attitude can do wonders, it might not be the best thing to completely ignore tragedy. [lost job, loved one died, fire, mental health issue] when you need help, you shouldn't think in back and white 'positive and negative' life has ups and downs. but you can fill your home with positive energy, perhaps try 'leaving your problems at the door' meaning before you enter your home after a long day, ground the energy outside [hugging a tree works for many people] that way you're not bringing any spiritual mud into your house.
Thank you for generous help I truly appreciate it and will do the things you have suggested. Any suggestions on a protective charm. I'm very new here,any advice , suggestions are so welcome.
By "evil" I mean the situation I was living in for 13 years,just as feel some relief something happens. I've faced a lot of adversity in my life and I have always come through it,I know I will now also. I just believe this time around I need more help to stay grounded and to keep the negativity of others at bay
Depends on your beliefs as to what kind of charms may help. I wear or carry black stones: obsidian, jet, etc, to collect negative energy. Then I cleanse the stones and use it again. It can be a piece of jewelry. Being an empath, I put up protection field around me when I go places. In my home, I smudge mostly with sage, then put up protection in the form of quartz crystals on my window sills and by doors. Personal protection, I wear rings all the time, and add pentacle/triquetra pendant necklace(s) when I go anywhere. These are all cleansed and charged before hand, of course. These are just suggestions for you.
How much do you know about such things? Grounding, shielding, energies, and even auras can help you with decisions on what will work for you. If you are new to magick, the forums will be great help. Forums tab, then click General Info, then Starting Out and Basics Expanded might be of help.These are good reads, even if all don't apply to your path.
Hope this helps.