Hi, I'm new to this forum and need some advice on what spell to cast.I'm having marital issues for 4 years now.My husband is a control freak and does his best to make my life miserable.Both of us live in the same house and moving out is not an option as there's a child involved.He takes away my 10 year old on holidays for weeks and doesnt let me see her or speak to her during that time .
I have tried speaking to him but he is closed to all disscusion and has cut me out of his life.His presence and aura is very heavy and negative.His side of the family are into black magic and never liked me.
I don't think we love eachother anymore but I want him to stop bothering me so that I can live peacefully in the same house till my daughter grows up a little.Any advice on what spell should I do would be much appreciated.Many thanks.
Sometimes magick can't help in every situation. If this man is abusing you in anyway, you need to get help. Magick can't solve everything. That being said, if he is not abusing you, you could try doing a honey jar to sweeten him and be nicer to you.
I would suggest a honey jar to start off then pay attention to the little things he does for about a week or two. Then decide on seeing if you should consider law enforcement or perhaps a marriage counselor. I'd recommend the counseling before involving law enforcement. I would also advise talking to an outsider say a friend or colleague so someone besides you know whats going on.
Best wishes and blessed be,
If he abuses you in any way you have to report it to the authorities.
I don't know how the law works over there but here it's not allowed for a father to take away a child for weeks, without the mother's consent, and not allow the mother to have any contact with the child ( and vice versa ).
If you can not move with your child and don't have any way out, you coul always try to stay at a friends house, than as refered about, a honey jar would be the best.
The best advice i could give you ( without using magick ) would be a divorce, if you no longer love each other and he keeps your child alway from you, this is the best option.
By means of magic, a honey jar would be the best really. Maybe you can try to burn some sage too.
But the best really would be reporting it to the authorities.
Thank you all for your advice.I tried suggesting marriage counselling last year but he didn'the want to hear about it. I also involved family and friends but nothing came out of it.He doesn't speak to me for months together and has discarded me so to say.The abuse is emotional not physical as he's a narcissistic bully.I will try the honey jar spell tonight and hope it works for me.Thank you all for your help and wishes.
Re: Help please.
By: Nekoshema / Novice Aug 26, 2016
Post # 6
yea i would try a honey jar, but i would also try divorce, separation, or move out. [if you want spells with those you can try a banishing, a spell to help with legal matters, a spell to find a home, a job spell if you need it] it's noble of you to stay together for your daughter, but trust me it's better in the long run. i was around 11 when my parents separated [their marital problems began when i was 9] and i dealt with a lot that bothered me for years. yes i was upset when we moved far away and my dad stopped visiting, but 17 years later i know it was for the best and my life is far better. i'm not saying you have to move as far as we did [my parents lived somewhere with no real job opportunities and my moms family was a provence away] your daughter can sense the tension, she can hear the fights, trust me. many feel two parents would be best for a child, but thats only the case in loving situations, if you can't even find a compromise with your husband, it's best for everyone if the two of you separate. [harsh as that sounds. your daughter might eve begin to believe this is how marriage works, how you should be treated, and that you should just accept the emotional abuse]
the honey jar should soften the situation and help you sit down and talk, but carrying on like this isn't good for you or your daughter despite how you may think. it'll hurt, and be hard, but you need to ask yourself do you deserve this? i wish you all the best, and the best solution for all involved.
Thanks for your advice.I know what you mean as I come from a family where my mom was abused by my dad.I guess my personality stems from that.I am working towards getting better qualifications so that I can eventually divorce him but need 2-3 years for that and hence was finding ways to make this time easier for me.I started with the honey jar on Thursday can't see any change as we don't speak to each other any more .Found a dead black bird in my garden which spooked me a bit but I guess I'm being too superstitious! Let's see how it works out.Thanks again for your input and wishes.
Just an update.He did start talking again but just to tell me that he wants me out of the house.Don't know if it's the honey jar that got things moving.Not the direction I was hoping for but movement anyways.He says he's going to file for divorce.Let's see how it goes.
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