First off, the person who is your "soul mate" is something for you to decide. This is reality, and in reality nobody can ever really tell you who loves you. No matter how much psychics we have in the world it will not be
And also there is no such thing as a soulmate. Just as much as werewolves, dragons and fairies dont exist a soul mate is just a myth. All you should be doing if you want a romantic relationship to its best is dating a bunch of guys/girls until you find the right one.
Notice i said the right one and not the perfect one. The idea of a soulmate is a perfect relationship where nothing goes wrong. That cant even happen in movies so think about it. Because it just doesnt make sense.
Also, if you're spending money right now for psychics to tell you who you love based on a chart which im guessing is what brought you to ask this question, you should stop. A chart cannot tell you who you really love. Its just not possible.
If you do want to find the right guy/girl, then like most other people you date a bunch of people and choose the right one. Im sorry but thats how it is.