Well any spell to make him come back to you is in some way manipulation, but a binding is, well, forcing the both of you to stay in each other's lives. Even if years later you meet someone who is better, even if he meets someone more compatible, you'll both continue to run into each other. Bindings are best done by two people. [like marriage]
If the only reason you broke up was distance I doubt a love spell is needed [though a honey jar would be best] Try talking to him and figure out a plan to get closer. Say go to the same college, move to the same town, even move in together. In the meantime figure out how much money to save, get part time jobs, and figure out a schedule to meet each other on spaced out intervals. [I would take the bus every other week 3 hours to see my boyfriend, and he would do the same] it's tough but if it's worth it, you'll both figure out something that works.
With that said, I'm guessing you're in high school [no age on your profile, couldn't tell] as hard as it seems there are other people. If this doesn't work out, it'll be painful and feel like the end of the world, but it's a lesson, you will grow and become stronger. Perhaps in 10 years [more or less] you both find each other again and get back together. Maybe you find someone more amazing, you never know, but you will have plenty of time to figure everything out. So while it feels like the end, don't pine over one person, know when you've done all you can and you should let fate work itself out.