Hi! This is my first post on here and I've been looking for a spell to use (not necessarily binding) on my ex. We broke up due to location issues and it's tearing me apart being away from him. I'm not looking to force him into anything, just something to give him a little shove towards me. I just really need help because it's made me very depressed.
I've done a few spells and it brought him to me, I can tell that the small spell I've been repeating is working.
If anyone can help me, please help me!
Re: Binding Spell(?)
By: Lark Moderator / Knowledgeable May 19, 2016
Post # 2
If you're not looking for a spell to force him into anything, as you say, then a binding spell is probably not the way to go.
Instead you might consider a Honey Jar spell to "sweeten" him towards you so he will want to be with you through his own desires. There are lots of discussions of Honey Jar spells on here as well as ideas to make a Honey Jar.
Re: Binding Spell(?)
By: Nekoshema / Novice May 19, 2016
Post # 3
Well any spell to make him come back to you is in some way manipulation, but a binding is, well, forcing the both of you to stay in each other's lives. Even if years later you meet someone who is better, even if he meets someone more compatible, you'll both continue to run into each other. Bindings are best done by two people. [like marriage]
If the only reason you broke up was distance I doubt a love spell is needed [though a honey jar would be best] Try talking to him and figure out a plan to get closer. Say go to the same college, move to the same town, even move in together. In the meantime figure out how much money to save, get part time jobs, and figure out a schedule to meet each other on spaced out intervals. [I would take the bus every other week 3 hours to see my boyfriend, and he would do the same] it's tough but if it's worth it, you'll both figure out something that works.
With that said, I'm guessing you're in high school [no age on your profile, couldn't tell] as hard as it seems there are other people. If this doesn't work out, it'll be painful and feel like the end of the world, but it's a lesson, you will grow and become stronger. Perhaps in 10 years [more or less] you both find each other again and get back together. Maybe you find someone more amazing, you never know, but you will have plenty of time to figure everything out. So while it feels like the end, don't pine over one person, know when you've done all you can and you should let fate work itself out.