Im not really into hoodoo and santeria but I am trying to learn more about their traditions.
Why must you make a payment with pennies or other small objects for getting graveyard dirt, shouldn't you ask the spirit what they prefer rather than what you think is best.
My other question goes around that you must leave three pennies at the gate as payment to gaurdian of the dead, Like Oya. Is it okay to use a deity you associtae with or some kind of psychopomp isntead of using Oya.
Please answer as soon as possible