She lives in Florida, where I'm in Illinois, and a part of me almost feels bad that I can't be there for us to figure it out together. Her mother keeps looking to me when she starts doing new things, and I wish I could be more help.
We have a lot of similar things with our growing up. I can pick up when there are spirits around, usually their intent, and their age and gender. We'll be out, and when I feel something/someone, she starts talking to what most would consider an imaginary friend... only they match up EXACTLY to what I pick up when I ask her about who she's talking to, and way before I say anything.
Another thing that has actually scared her father (that's exactly me growing up, and still is), is that if she gets extremely mad or upset or stressed, lightbulbs around her tend to burn out, electronics fail, and things go missing. I grew to be able to control it. I, for a lack of better wording, "grew into it," but she's a lot more moody than I was, and we don't want it to cause issues...