I need help... I broke up with my ex-bf several times but we always get back together, and our problem is, he works a lot, travels for work and never includes me in his private life, he keeps me hidden from his friends and family.
I finally met his father after almost a year but it was in a way that I rang the doorbell, he opened, and his father was next to him, He didn't tell him I was his girlfriend, we said hello and that’s it, he left.
He told me that he was afraid of commitment, he was never married or children, he’s Taurus and the connection between us is amazing. I can’t get him off my head and I know he can’t get me out of his mind too, I know this, because he keeps coming back, promises to change and the next day he is back to the same person, "hot and cold." He attempted to skype me after 28 days of no contact and I got back to him via text few days later saying I was thinking about him, but he did not respond back, it’s been two weeks since then.
He did say, I am everything he wants in a woman, but he’s afraid of commitment and losing his freedom, but the thing is, I don’t pressure him, except I do ask to be known to his friends and family, and he’s not willing to do that, and this is why I broke up with him.
Question one: What can I do to have him trust me and let me in, so I can enjoy time with him during holidays and parties with friends and family.
Question two: Is there anything I can do for him not to fear and want to be in a committed relationship with me?
By the way, I am new to spells, however I’ve done energy healings, so step by step guidance will be appreciated.
PS: I have hired spell casters who took my money and promised results, and so far nothing happened, therefore, this time I do not wish to hire anyone, I just want to do it myself.
Just my opinion....
Just keep the energy positive.
Perhaps try being friends, and leave out the stressers of "relationship" for now.
I firmly believe that "what will be will be", and "true love will find a way".
Dabbling in love issues with magic, in my opinion only, can cause more damage then it is worth.
If he's affraid of commitment, maybe what's he's really saying is he wants to explore other options, or his heart isn't in it for the long haul. If these are true, then he isn't the right one for you, and someday you'll meet the right one, and be thankful that this guy didnt workout.
Or maybe he is truly scared of commitment, and getting his heart broke. If this is the case, just keep the energy positive. Give him the space, redeveloped friendship. Offer him the security that no matter what, you'll be there for him. If its meant to be, in time it will workout.
There are things that can be done to sway things in your favor, but these things usually come with a price, and though you might get what your asking...it might not be what you truly want in the long run.
Thank you Zen 5, . He is truly honest, and he has been hurt, and I do give him lot's of space, but when we connect it only becomes passion, he does not like to talk much. He's Taurus and very slow... I do offer him the security that no matter what, I'll be there for him. And he tells me I am the perfect woman in every way, and he doe's not want to hurt me or disappoint me, which he keeps doing anyways by hiding and going hot and cold.
Please share; what are the things that can be done to sway things in my favor, and what do you mean, by these things usually come with a price, and though you might get what you're asking...it might not be what you truly want in the long run. Thank You.
