He is going through the divorce. Regardless of the circumstances, that is a tough time -- even if it is a mutual decision between the two people, and they very amicably decide who gets what.
But if the post you mention is his take on what's going on with the divorce, he is having a very tough time with it emotionally.
My advice is be careful. Sometimes a new relationship too close to a split does not pan out so well. He may need a bit of time to heal.
None of these things will have anything to do with the honey jar.
Just be careful.