I am new here too since today. Sounds like you need a boast to get things together again. I am very novice in spells, but I am a bit further in other spiritual business and I always feel that one should (if possible) identify the problem as thoroughly as possible before making it right. And then let lose any spells and other interventions you think is right. Communication is essential.
Just make sure you protect yourself when "fighting". I wish you well and I hope - in this life - you and your soulmate can work it out. :)