I essentailly go with the saying in whichMahatma Gandhi; "I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians, they are very different from your Christ."
No, not every Christian is spiteful or hateful, however, in my personal experience they have been. They scream and preach that everyone else is wrong and that their way is the only way. They condemn others due to having a differemce of opinion and it's not right. Though, I do my best to not write someone off based by their relogious chosing, however, I do have that in the back of mind of the majority in which I have encountered are like so "I ramain silent and observe" - Queen Elizabeth I.