Light the candle and pray over your honey jar. The key is to focus your intent, your wish/desire as you pray on the jar. And talk to the candle that you burn on the jar top. Yes, talk. Speak as if you are talking with the person you got in that jar. Always speak sweetly, in a caring way, saying what you wish to achieve.
How long you pray it's up to you, most important to concentrate on your goal, feel your energy flowing to your honey jar.
You can even burn incense while doing this, until the candle complete burns out. If there is any wax left over, just leave it, don't pick it off, let it build up. Once the candles has burnt out, very gently shake the jar, to help liven up the jar. Do this every day for the first week, then you can cut it down to 3 times a week. Normally I do this on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, Trust in your work , it is a slow spell, but the results are always worth the wait, if done correctly.
Hope this is helpful.